Reading this makes me realize that one of the issues caused by a narcissistic parent is the talent vs. effort praise: a narcissist LOVES to see talent in their kids, because it seems like a reflection on them. But they couldn't care less about whether their kid is putting in their own effort. That is something I have to overcome as an ad…
Reading this makes me realize that one of the issues caused by a narcissistic parent is the talent vs. effort praise: a narcissist LOVES to see talent in their kids, because it seems like a reflection on them. But they couldn't care less about whether their kid is putting in their own effort. That is something I have to overcome as an adult now (who was "talented/smart" enough to just coast through school)
Reading this makes me realize that one of the issues caused by a narcissistic parent is the talent vs. effort praise: a narcissist LOVES to see talent in their kids, because it seems like a reflection on them. But they couldn't care less about whether their kid is putting in their own effort. That is something I have to overcome as an adult now (who was "talented/smart" enough to just coast through school)